How to Throw a Tropical Bridal Shower

IMG_58721. Invite some friends.

2. Decorate with some palm trees, lights, and crank the heat for effect.

3. Dress a little tropical.

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The bride and some of her ladies. :)

4. Play some awesome games like bridal bingo. Mingle to find the people who had “used Megan’s shaver, worn Megan’s pants or ever felt personally victimized by Megan.” (A rip off of Mean Girls.)

5. Or “Pin the Bikini on Max”

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Or 20 questions where the bride either gets a chocolate for the correct answer or a piece of gum to chew for every incorrect answer.

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6. Make a tropical menu with kabobs, shrimp, veggies, tropical fruit fondue fountain, mixed fruit popsicles and more.

DSCN17987. Do dishes till midnight. 

In all seriousness, it was a fabulous shower that went off without a hitch. All the bridesmaids had a wonderful time planning it and Megan has an amazing group of friends. One shower down, two to go!

The bridesmaids slept over and we were up bright and early the next morning to head to Toronto to get our bridesmaid dresses and go to the Toronto Bridal Show. I will save you the stress of dress shopping and skip to a serene moment where we decided to break for lunch..

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We didn’t have much luck with the actual bridal dresses at the boutiques we stopped at but we ended up buying fabric and are getting them custom made to save the headache of different styles, shapes and layers that are happening. I will be sure to keep you posted.

It was a busy day; we were scrambling to keep up and Megan said more than once that she thinks that she should just elope. The reality is, I am having a ball helping to plan for this huge day for her and I am so proud that she is marrying a man she loves. She is so organized and I am delighted to be her maid of honor.

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riddled with weddings, sniffles and tv.

Another weekend, another two weddings.  

I escaped this weekend mainly unscathed as the dry cleaners are still working on my dress (fingers crossed on that one) and that I left the weddings early as I am (still) battling a cold and I am just not a lot of fun at the current moment. 
 
I did, however, manage to have a lovely weekend. Saturday morning, I woke at 6:30 am as I am unable to shake that silly internal alarm clock and I indulged in a morning of reading in bed. Until the sun came up that is. See, my coworker lent me a ridiculously inspiring book that keeps cropping into my writing the past number of weeks called Born to Run. It is examining the more elite long distance running tribe in the world and their secrets. 
It has challenged me to try barefoot running, watch my meat intake, add chia seeds to my diet and adjust my stride. I am hoping to organize this into a little bit more of a series per his suggestion as soon as I get a regular schedule going so stay tuned! So when the sun came up, I burst from my front door and went on a long, beautiful run. It was relatively painfree and went quickly as I was focusing on my stride and pace. Lately I have been working on negative splits, which means I try to run the last half of my long runs in less time than the first section. It takes a lot of focus!
 
So after the run, I baked 100 cookies for a work event and got ready for a day of weddings. I was not able to wear my new dress as it is still at the cleaners but I wore my gold skirt that I got in London, England and my Christian Louboutins.

Taken in my shoebox sized flat in England

Another treasure from England. :)

The first wedding was beautiful as it was for some old friends of mine who I had the privilege of watching fall in love. Next, it was off to our final wedding of the day, Barney and Adrienne. Barney is the owner of the gym where I work and Adrienne is the massage therapist. Match made in heaven. 

 
 
Yesterday was blustery and cold. I spent the afternoon at Word on the Street, shivering and discussing the Journal. After a long day in the wind, my lovely boy friend took me for some comfort food at The Works and followed by an evening of Breaking Bad. 
So my weekend was riddled with weddings, sniffles and tv. Could be much worse.
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I love to use this blog as a platform to help people and I received an important email today regarding an organization that is doing a lot of good to the world. MEDA. MEDA is an association of compassionate business women and men who invest in the lives of families living in poverty around the world. They are working on an important new project that I am excited to help out with:
MEDA is part of a new initiative called Global Giving, an online donation platform for not-for-profits.  In order to have a permanent place on this far-reaching, social media website, we need to to raise $4,000 from at least 50 donors (by Saturday) for our Ethiopia project. 
So, I am asking each of you to consider going on-line to donate to ensure we meet our goals.  Even if it is only $10 each it will help us reach the 50 donor goal.  If you are interested, please go to our page  www.sparkinggrowth.com to donate and to read more about our Ethiopia project.
Thank you.

When life gives you olive oil, you throw a scarf over the stain and dance

Whew! 

What a week! Three weddings, two work events and instructing 6 am spin class…and it is just half way through! 
 
I absolutely delight in being busy, but my body was not so sure. I have come down with a sore throat and the inevitable cold is looming, so I am pounding the garlic, chaga and oregano. Good thing Jesse doesn’t see me all week..
 
A bit of a recap, shall we?
 
Part 1 – Tori’s Wedding:
Backing up a bit to the Bachelorette Party I hosted at our house on one of the last truly beautiful summer days. We had a wonderful time eating, swimming and toasting the beautiful bride. 
  
On the day of the wedding, I woke up at 5 am to get to my hair dressers on time. I had all my belongings in the back of my car, with my dresses carefully draped on my back seats (remember that). Getting ready was smooth and the wedding was a treasure. From a beautiful, heartfelt ceremony in the morning to a wonderful reception with brunch as the meal – it was absolutely wonderful.
More pictures of the day:

The beautiful couple

 

Me and my main man.

This boy makes me laugh – I believe he had just whispered “Who let the fox in here?”

Best wishes to the beautiful couple. I love you both.

I saw the couple off with everyone else and headed to my car to speed off to the next wedding. It was Jesse’s close friend so Jesse had been there since the early afternoon. I stopped at Jesse’s house to change and went to pull my dress out of the back of my car. 

 
Part 2 – Digressions:
 
Ok. Let me freeze the frame and insert a digression. A number of weeks ago, Jesse decided to buy two bottles of cold pressed, extra virgin olive oil because I mentioned I liked the bottles and he really likes olive oil. He placed them in the back seat and we went on our merry way, until the evening when I helped him unload them, when we discovered that 2 litres of olive oil had spilled into my backseat. (My car still smells like a chip wagon…) Regardless, knowing this, I had shrewdly placed a towel in my back seat to protect my dress. 
 
Unfreeze and fall into another digression. (What?)
Upon graduating university, I was feeling particularly wealthy one day and Mark Nunes was having a sale. My eyes fell on the most stunning silk dress I had ever seen and I knew I had to have it. I didn’t want it, it chose me. Me and a significant number off my bank account. But it was worth it when I picked it up from the tailors the following week. I put it in front row centre of my wardrobe and admired it in the weeks leading up to the wedding. 
The wedding day – I repeat – I laid it carefully in the backseat on a towel. 
 
UNFREEZE. 
 
You probably already know what I am about to tell you. That horrid knot in the pit of your stomach. Yeah. Happened to me too. I called Jesse, catching him mid-wedding socializations to tell him the story. He is perfect in a situation like that because he always has a worse story. 
 
What did I do? Blotted some stain remover on the back and wandered around getting ready while it dried. I then put on the dress and threw a colour blocking scarf over my shoulder and pranced into the wedding reception. I ate a gorgeous meal and when it became dark and shadowy enough, I danced the night away with my best friend. 
 
[It is now at the only eco-friendly and ridiculously high priced dry cleaners in Kitchener Waterloo and I anxiously wait for Friday when I get the yay or nay on whether it will come out. I need to wear it to a wedding this weekend!]
Moral: I guess when life gives you olive oil, you throw a scarf over the stain and dance.
Stay tuned – with two more weddings this weekend, there are bound to be more adventures!