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psychology2

Oct2

When a Run isn’t Fun

This may come as a shock to you, but I don’t feel like running every time I go on a run. To be honest, the days that I want to bail out are rare and often the laziness occurs after I have started. All it takes is one, niggling thought: I don’t want to do this.

Suddenly, my entire run is off the rails. This thought doesn’t show up on long stretches of beautiful trails or when I am headed out on the back roads alone, it always waits to show up until I am with a group of people and often surrounding something involving speed work.

The trick is knowing how to keep pushing through a run that you are just NOT feeling.

1. Remind yourself you love this. I try to make myself feel silly for not wanting to run by going over all the reasons you love to run. Don’t love to run? I really have no answers for you on this one!

2. Force yourself to smile. I often find this works for every situation where I do NOT feel like smiling. It is science, if you are smiling, you are happier whether you are feeling it or not.

3. Relax and FOCUS. By focusing on the task and counting strides, intervals or anything really, I am more likely to fall into a rhythm and have a stronger workout.

4. Make goals and make them measurable. If you are afraid you are going to need to quit, say “just one more” after each interval and push through. Focus on your achievements, no matter how inconsequential they may seem, like doing strides and being able to keep up with the person in front of you, or completing an interval.

5. Change your terrain. Sometimes by changing your training location, it will provide an interesting distraction for those more painful runs.

6. Don’t dwell. Don’t focus on the issue that is making your run mentally tough. There are good days and bad days and you will need to run through both.

I have ordered an interesting book on the idea of sports psychology and training your mind called Mind Gym by David Casstevens. I look forward to sharing some insights once I have dug into the book.

What are some of your top tricks to handle a run that isn’t going well? 

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Filed Under: TrainingTagged With: Jessica Kuepfer, MInd Gym, running, sports psychologyOctober 2, 2013

Comments

  1. Leanne says

    October 2, 2013 at 10:04 am

    I own Mind Gym! My sister gave it to me for Christmas a few years ago. It is great, you will love it! I look forward to hearing your thoughts on the book 🙂

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    • lacesandlattes says

      October 2, 2013 at 12:01 pm

      You were the inspiration for this book, actually. I cannot wait to chat about it with you!

      Reply
  2. Kristina @ Blog About Running says

    October 2, 2013 at 12:31 pm

    I think the beauty of a long run is that *because* it is long there is plenty of opportunity to dig deep and get past the un-fun part and finish strong. For me, many times just the idea that “this too shall past” and I’ll eventually get back into my groove is what helps me press on.

    I also bought Galloway’s book on mental training a while back and found some of the tips to be helpful. For instance, he recommends (mentally) talking to the individual body parts that are bothering you and encouraging them. This usually works for me simply because at some point I start laughing and think – “seriously, am I really talking to my calves like they’re my friends?!” Haha 🙂 C’mon Calves, we can totally do this! Way to go!

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    • lacesandlattes says

      October 2, 2013 at 12:40 pm

      I love the quote, “never judge a run by the first mile.” So true. But I have less of a problem with the long, slow pain and more of an issue being motivated for the short, intense bursts, which is the exact reason why I need them!

      I will check out Galloway’s book – it sounds adorable to talk to your calves. Lol. Encouraging is such a funny and creative way to push through the suck!

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  3. Angela @ Eat Spin Run Repeat says

    October 2, 2013 at 8:09 pm

    Ooh such a great (and highly applicable to me!) topic. Normally I run first thing in the morning, but the later in the day it gets, the harder it is for me to get ‘er done. I generally manage to motivate myself by repeatedly saying that I know I’m going to feel great when I’m done. I’ve never proven that little bit of self-talk wrong – even if it’s just a tiny bit better, I’m always a much better person after a run!

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